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ONS Podcast - Episode 33 - Take a Breath
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[0:00] Welcome to the ONS podcast with your
[0:03] host Lana Jacobson.
[0:05] >> Good day community. It's the ONS podcast
[0:08] brought to you by our partners at Face
[0:09] to Face Academy. For those who are
[0:11] tuning in for the first time, ONS stands
[0:13] for Office of Neighborhood Safety. I'm
[0:16] your host, Lana Jacobson, and I'm part
[0:17] of the ONS team. This podcast was
[0:20] created for departments like ours and
[0:21] community organizations to connect you
[0:23] to alternative public safety measures,
[0:25] programs, and your local growth and
[0:27] healing opportunities. Today I have
[0:31] Natalya Davis in the room. Hi Natalya,
[0:33] welcome.
[0:34] >> Hi.
[0:34] >> We are going to take a breath. Today she
[0:37] is the co-founder and executive director
[0:40] of Take a Breath. Natalya, take 30
[0:43] seconds for me and introduce yourself.
[0:45] >> All right. Natalyia Gaston Davis. I am
[0:48] the founder of Take a Breath LLC. I'm
[0:51] also the owner of Hotworks 24-hour
[0:54] infrared Sana Fitness Studio in St.
[0:56] Paul. I've been a resident of um St.
[0:59] Paul for about 20 years now. I'm
[1:01] originally from Houston, Texas. Okay.
[1:03] >> And um I met my husband in college who
[1:05] is from St. Paul, born and raised. And
[1:08] uh Clark Atlanta University, that's
[1:10] where we met. Married for 17 years. We
[1:12] have two kids.
[1:14] >> Uh 12 and 14. Yeah,
[1:16] >> 12 and 14. Boy, oh boy, I remember that
[1:18] age. Degree, what did you specialize in?
[1:21] Because you're you got hot works going
[1:23] and you have this thing with mental
[1:25] health and stuff. So just give me a
[1:27] little bit about your educational
[1:28] background for those who inspire to do
[1:30] this.
[1:31] >> Yeah, my education has nothing to do
[1:34] with any of
[1:35] >> Isn't that how it works? [laughter]
[1:38] >> Yeah, but my degree is in television
[1:40] broadcasting.
[1:41] >> Okay, so you should be sitting over
[1:42] here.
[1:43] >> I should, but I'm [laughter] not.
[1:46] >> I get it because I went to school for
[1:48] interior design the first time I went to
[1:50] school and not doing anything in
[1:52] interior design. So I get it. I get it.
[1:54] That's how it works. as you get you're
[1:56] you're multi-talented. So
[1:58] >> yeah, you know, you go for what you
[1:59] want, right? But for me, I believe in
[2:02] God and it's like let your will be done.
[2:04] So whatever this journey holds, just let
[2:06] it be good.
[2:07] >> There we go. There we go. And then when
[2:09] you're young and you go to school, you
[2:11] haven't really lived a lot of life yet.
[2:14] And so life is where you discover what
[2:16] you're passionate about.
[2:17] >> And so when you go to school and you do
[2:19] your thing, you haven't figured out what
[2:21] you're passionate about. So that
[2:23] sometimes you do end up changing your
[2:24] trajectory.
[2:26] >> Yeah.
[2:26] >> Um, okay. So I always start off with
[2:28] icebreaker questions and I know you just
[2:30] was living your best life. So you strike
[2:33] me as a type of person who likes to sit
[2:35] on the beach when you go on vacation and
[2:37] listen to the waves, meditate, maybe
[2:39] throw some yoga in there or something
[2:40] like that. I'm going to give you some
[2:42] questions that are totally opposite of
[2:44] that. [laughter]
[2:46] Okay. Taco [snorts] Tuesday and tequila.
[2:49] YOLO. I'm on vacation with no kids or
[2:53] staying up all night at the Ragatone
[2:55] nightclub dancing until your feet hurt.
[2:58] >> YOLO.
[2:59] >> Okay.
[3:00] >> Yeah. [laughter]
[3:01] >> Okay.
[3:01] >> No kids. Let's go.
[3:03] >> Okay. So, the holidays are going to
[3:06] come. And what food do you like?
[3:08] Non-traditional or traditional holiday
[3:10] food?
[3:12] >> I'm not choosy. I don't cook.
[3:14] >> Oh, okay.
[3:15] >> So, so it's it's all about what you
[3:17] cooking and I'm there. Okay. So, well,
[3:20] what two things do you look forward to
[3:22] the most during the holidays?
[3:24] >> Family.
[3:25] >> Okay.
[3:25] >> Family. My family's in Texas. My
[3:28] husband's family. We live right next
[3:29] door. So, family is big to me.
[3:31] >> Um, but I look forward to family and of
[3:34] course eating.
[3:35] >> Yeah.
[3:35] >> Some oxtails or something.
[3:37] >> Do you guys road trip it or do you jump
[3:38] on a plane?
[3:39] >> Both.
[3:40] >> Okay. Whatever is convenient at the
[3:42] time. Huh.
[3:42] >> If it's all four of us, we get in that
[3:44] car. Well, see, and I think car rides
[3:46] are better because you don't want to
[3:47] deal with the delays and stuff just in
[3:49] case something, you know, at the airport
[3:50] with the holidays and all that other
[3:53] stuff. Okay. You have to eliminate one.
[3:56] Lemon pound cake, sweet potato pie,
[3:59] apple pie, or peach cobbler.
[4:03] >> Apple pie.
[4:03] >> There you go. Okay.
[4:06] All right. Let's jump into these
[4:08] questions. Tell us about Take a Breath.
[4:11] Take a breath was started with a simple
[4:13] idea
[4:14] >> to share breathing techniques with
[4:16] anyone who has lungs that can take a
[4:19] breath. It's grown into something much
[4:21] larger, much bigger. But it's at its
[4:24] core, it's about giving people practical
[4:27] tools to regulate their bodies and find
[4:29] moments of peace whether you are 5 years
[4:32] old or you're 85.
[4:35] >> Why is it important? This work is
[4:38] important to me because I truly believe
[4:41] that regulating the body is a life skill
[4:44] >> and sometimes it's literally saving
[4:46] lives. Life is hard. We all go through
[4:49] stress, grief, and conflict. When we can
[4:53] ground ourselves through the breath, we
[4:55] give ourselves a chance to respond
[4:56] instead of react.
[4:59] And that can change everything.
[5:01] >> What area and population are you serving
[5:04] in your work right now?
[5:05] >> I serve the Twin Cities. Yeah.
[5:07] >> Um especially St. Paul,
[5:09] >> um Maplewood and Minneapolis through
[5:11] Take a Breath and my work with IGF Kids.
[5:14] So IGF Kids is from the Irreducible
[5:16] Grace Foundation. I'm a workshop
[5:19] coordinator over there.
[5:20] >> Okay.
[5:21] >> But I work with elementary school
[5:22] students and stuff and do things in
[5:25] district 622 in Maplewood um with young
[5:28] people, young adults, elders, with folks
[5:30] in the community, activists, police
[5:33] officers, firefighters, parents. Healing
[5:36] doesn't belong to one group.
[5:38] >> It's for everybody.
[5:40] >> We had Dr. D on the show, so yay.
[5:42] >> This is This is gonna be good. This is
[5:44] really good.
[5:45] >> Nice.
[5:45] >> I feel like you already answered this,
[5:48] but you can go in depth if you want to.
[5:50] What problematic need are you
[5:51] addressing?
[5:53] >> So, we're in a mental health crisis,
[5:56] that part, especially in our schools and
[5:59] our communities. Kids are overwhelmed.
[6:02] Teachers are burnt out. families are
[6:05] grieving, surviving trauma, or just
[6:08] trying to make it through the day. What
[6:10] I found is that people don't always have
[6:12] the language for what they're feeling,
[6:15] but they do feel it in their bodies.
[6:17] >> Mhm.
[6:18] >> That's where breath work comes in. It's
[6:20] simple. It's accessible, and it starts
[6:23] to build awareness.
[6:25] Take a breath is addressing the lack of
[6:27] tools people have to self-regulate in
[6:29] moments of stress, anxiety, when they're
[6:32] overwhelmed. We're creating spaces where
[6:35] it's in a classroom, a fire station, a
[6:38] living room where people can learn about
[6:40] how the nervous system works and how
[6:42] trauma shows up in the body and how we
[6:44] can calm ourselves down in real time.
[6:47] We're not trying to replace therapy or
[6:49] medicine,
[6:50] >> but it's the first step.
[6:52] >> Yeah.
[6:53] >> And it's a powerful one. And like just
[6:57] speaking of it, so in our work here at
[7:00] Office of Neighborhood Safety, we are an
[7:02] alternative safety response team of
[7:05] people. And on top of responding to the
[7:08] community, we also have our own stuff.
[7:11] And so I'll just tell our audience,
[7:13] Natalya has come to our office on a few
[7:17] occasions to do just some of our like,
[7:20] you know, we'll have sometimes we need
[7:22] to take a breath. Yeah, [laughter] we
[7:24] will have like um Brooke calls it a
[7:27] wellness day and so we'll do something
[7:29] that's therapeutic to ourselves in our
[7:32] work and then we'll go and do something
[7:34] fun, right? And so Natalya has come in
[7:37] and every single time she comes in,
[7:41] somebody ends up crying. [laughter]
[7:44] And I'm one of the somebody's. I've
[7:46] cried both times. Um because I think
[7:49] just checking in when you're taking that
[7:51] breath, you're checking in with yourself
[7:54] and you're allowing yourself to really
[7:56] just feel and meet yourself where you're
[7:58] at
[8:00] >> and you have a good way of just making
[8:03] people recognize that. You know what I
[8:05] mean? Just taking that moment.
[8:08] When and where did your concern for this
[8:11] kind of work come from? When did you
[8:13] realize like this is a need? We need to
[8:16] do this. we need to just stop for a
[8:18] moment. When did that happen? Like, can
[8:20] you think of a moment?
[8:22] >> Well, it really started with my kids.
[8:24] They
[8:26] So, I worked with one of the local
[8:27] healers. His name is Sam Simmons. And
[8:30] the one thing he said was, "The way to
[8:32] heal our community is to start with our
[8:34] babies."
[8:35] >> Yes.
[8:35] >> And um when I first started this work, I
[8:38] was an ally to the young people. I'm
[8:40] good. I grew up in a middle class home
[8:43] and I had everything I needed. And once
[8:46] I started to understand what trauma and
[8:48] stress the definition and triggers and
[8:51] how it lives in the body
[8:52] >> and I started to become aware of what I
[8:54] was feeling, I was like, "Oh my
[8:56] goodness." And then I brought this work
[8:58] home, right? So I'm regulating it myself
[9:00] and I'm teaching my children
[9:02] >> and um yeah, they got it so quickly and
[9:05] they were more uh susceptible to do it
[9:08] because they understood the why. Mhm.
[9:10] >> Um, so like I said with my kids, I'm
[9:14] raising a black son, right? And when it
[9:18] really hit me, he was uh he was about 3
[9:20] years old
[9:21] >> and he loves the store Target. I would
[9:24] take him to Target and a lot of folks in
[9:26] my workshops have heard this story
[9:28] because it's a part of my story. But I
[9:31] would tell him before I go in, "Hey
[9:32] buddy, I'm not buying any toys."
[9:34] [laughter]
[9:35] >> I knew where this was going,
[9:36] >> you know, and I'm the positive parent.
[9:39] I'm doing something different. And so
[9:40] I'm I'm setting him up with this is not
[9:43] what we're doing. And what he goes and
[9:44] do in the store. He asks me for toys and
[9:48] I say no and he has a fit. And so I
[9:51] would literally carry him out of the
[9:53] store like a football just with this the
[9:55] cart in the store. Everything is there.
[9:57] >> And when I got home I realized I'm like,
[10:00] "Okay, we tell our kids, calm down. Take
[10:03] a breath." But their amygdala has taken
[10:05] over. They can't hear us.
[10:07] >> Okay. And so when we got home, that's
[10:09] when I realized I said, "Smell the rose.
[10:13] Blow out the candle." [sighs]
[10:16] And he, "No, I can't. I know you got to
[10:18] do it." And he would start to do it. And
[10:20] that's when we would calm down. And I
[10:22] said, "Oh my gosh, my child, he's
[10:24] triggered. His amydala has taken over.
[10:27] This breath has calmed him down." And as
[10:30] life happens, you hear all about all the
[10:33] violence in the community, all the black
[10:35] men that are being killed and all the
[10:38] things. And I'm like,
[10:39] >> I got to teach my son to regulate his
[10:42] body now. So that his first response
[10:45] when he is in crisis or he is scared or
[10:48] his amydala takes over because the
[10:50] amydala feels like it's protecting you.
[10:52] Mhm.
[10:52] >> And I always tell people, the amydala
[10:55] can't tell the difference between a real
[10:57] threat and a perceived threat. And so
[11:00] >> if you can just breathe and calm down
[11:02] and start to think from your frontal
[11:04] cortex, then you can make that right
[11:06] decision. And I tell people when he is
[11:08] stopped by the police, he will take that
[11:11] breath and he will come home to his
[11:13] mother because he's regulated.
[11:14] >> Amen.
[11:15] >> Yeah,
[11:16] >> that part. So on that note, just tell
[11:20] our audience a little bit more about how
[11:22] just taking a few moments of deep
[11:24] breathing can change the whole outcome
[11:26] of the situation because that's like
[11:28] where your conversation was leading into
[11:31] that moment. Like just taking breaths
[11:35] helps me too. It helps my mouth cuz my
[11:38] mouth is lethal. [laughter]
[11:42] So I take breaths. I smell the roses and
[11:45] blow out candles a lot.
[11:47] >> Right. Right.
[11:49] There's so many there's so many things
[11:51] there's so many stories I could tell you
[11:54] and how and your question was
[11:56] breathtanging the outcome.
[11:58] >> Yeah. Just taking a moment and taking
[12:00] that deep breath how it can totally
[12:02] change everything like your reaction
[12:04] like everything.
[12:06] >> Yeah. So, and I learned this from the
[12:09] Irable Grace Foundation, and it was a
[12:11] quote that we just stood on, and I've
[12:13] taken it, and I just write with it.
[12:15] Freedom is finding the pause between a
[12:19] trigger and a response and making a
[12:21] choice. And when you break that down,
[12:24] freedom is finding the pause between a
[12:26] trigger, that trigger, that thing. Once
[12:29] you become aware of what your body is
[12:31] feeling, I'll tell this quick story. And
[12:34] my children are, like I said, they're my
[12:36] inspiration. They're a reason why I'm
[12:38] out here in the community and I'm
[12:39] sharing this work because I've seen what
[12:41] it does for them and myself as a mother.
[12:44] >> But, um, one night [snorts] my son, I
[12:46] have really bad allergies. And my son
[12:49] wanted to, uh, I was going to Walgreens
[12:51] and, you know, he liked them toys. He
[12:53] said, "Oh, you going to Walgreens? I
[12:55] want to go, too." And I said, "Um, no,
[12:58] no, no. I'm not buying any toys. I'm
[13:00] going to just go get this medicine and
[13:01] I'm out the door. Mom, please let me
[13:03] just give you a chance to show you. I
[13:05] want to show you I can do this. So, we
[13:07] go to Walgreens
[13:10] and I'm sneezing out. My eyes are
[13:11] itching, but we get out the car and he
[13:13] goes straight to the toy aisle. It was
[13:15] like you could hear the sound
[13:18] >> from his feet.
[13:19] >> Yeah.
[13:19] >> And so, he's in the toy aisle. I go get
[13:22] my medicine. I say, "Hey, let's go." And
[13:24] he says, "Um, hey, Mom, just stand right
[13:28] over there."
[13:30] Now, mind you, he's
[13:32] >> he's about seven at the time, maybe.
[13:35] >> And I said, "Stand right over there."
[13:36] And immediately, I could feel my heart
[13:39] my heart was beating fast. My stomach I
[13:42] was like, "Some, what is is in my brain?
[13:44] I'm like, is he about to steal?"
[13:46] >> Oh,
[13:47] >> that's what I was thinking. That's where
[13:48] I went.
[13:48] >> Why does he want me to go away?
[13:50] >> Yeah. So, I stood over there cuz I
[13:52] didn't know what else to do.
[13:54] >> And he put the toy in his pocket.
[13:56] >> He put the toy in his pocket.
[13:59] And when I tell you the way the brain
[14:02] works because my amydala was like,
[14:05] "Snatch him up and whoop him. You need
[14:06] to whoop him. No, call the go get
[14:09] security and scare the hell out of him."
[14:10] I don't know if I can say that, but
[14:12] >> no, you can. Cuz we all we've all gone
[14:14] through that with our kids.
[14:16] >> Yeah.
[14:16] >> So all these things in my brain was
[14:18] like, "Do this, do that." But at the
[14:19] same time, I was like, "Stop."
[14:21] >> And I just started to breathe. [sighs]
[14:24] [gasps]
[14:25] >> So we're walking. He's like, "Mom, let's
[14:26] go.
[14:27] >> This is my baby." and he's running up to
[14:29] the counter and I just started to
[14:32] breathe. I started to let people skip
[14:33] the line because I just needed to
[14:35] regulate
[14:36] >> until I could feel my body calm down and
[14:39] we got up to the counter. I put the
[14:41] medicine on the counter and he put the
[14:44] toy on the counter.
[14:46] >> Oh my gosh.
[14:47] >> He put the toy on the counter and I
[14:49] said, "We're not getting any toys. I
[14:52] told you this." So I said, "No, thank
[14:54] you. We got the medicine." And we walked
[14:56] out
[14:57] >> and I said, "MJ, why did you put that
[15:00] toy in your pocket? Why? I thought you
[15:02] were going to steal it." And he said,
[15:04] "Mom, I don't want to go to juvie." It
[15:08] was like, "So, at that moment,
[15:12] I had I found my freedom. I didn't
[15:14] traumatize my kid by calling security to
[15:16] teach him a lesson in my brain. I didn't
[15:19] snatch him up and put hands on him for
[15:22] something he was never going to do. I
[15:24] allowed that breath allowed me to make
[15:27] the choice to give my child the chance
[15:29] to make
[15:30] >> the right decision. So I always tell
[15:32] folks, man.
[15:34] >> Yeah.
[15:35] >> Yeah. Take a breath.
[15:36] >> Take a breath.
[15:38] >> Yeah.
[15:38] >> Take a breath. Now, taking a breath in
[15:40] my house, my kids already know. You can
[15:42] ask my daughter right now. She said, "My
[15:44] mom doesn't yell.
[15:45] >> She doesn't spank us. She doesn't cuss
[15:47] at us. When she starts breathing, we
[15:50] say, "Uh, okay, Mom. what did we do? And
[15:53] some one of my friends said, "Why?
[15:55] >> Why do you ask what did you do?" She
[15:57] said, "I know my mom is trying to stop
[15:59] herself from doing something that she
[16:01] would regret."
[16:02] >> And when my daughter said that, and she
[16:04] was about 12, I said, "Wow."
[16:07] >> Yeah.
[16:08] >> This breath is good.
[16:09] >> Wow. Oh, that is so sweet. And I love
[16:12] the outcome of the story.
[16:14] >> Yeah. Yeah. It's and and I and I tell
[16:17] this story and I've met young people
[16:19] that have made that mistake of stealing
[16:22] something.
[16:22] >> And one of the kids that I worked with,
[16:24] he said, "Wow, my mom called me a thief
[16:26] >> for days." It was like when I would come
[16:28] in the house from school, it was like,
[16:30] "There goes that thief."
[16:31] >> You know, we're thinking she the mom
[16:34] >> shaming him,
[16:35] >> shaming him. And and and you know, we're
[16:38] I we're not perfect parents, but that's
[16:40] the thing that comes to our mind is to
[16:42] shame them so that they don't do things
[16:44] again or to threaten them so they don't
[16:46] do things again or to call somebody and
[16:49] scare them so they don't do things like
[16:50] that again. But that's not safe for our
[16:53] little brown kids. And that's and that
[16:56] >> comes that's historical trauma. Like
[16:58] that's historical back in the day.
[17:01] That's what mothers used to do to save
[17:03] their children,
[17:05] >> you know, during slavery. The the
[17:07] master, oh man, is Natalya Natalya's
[17:10] looking good. Oh, no, she don't.
[17:12] Natalia, she ain't she not about
[17:14] nothing. You don't want that. Like, you
[17:15] know, we're just used to
[17:17] >> Yeah.
[17:18] >> That's it's a it's like a protection.
[17:20] >> A protection.
[17:21] >> Yeah.
[17:22] >> Wow. That's I love him. [laughter]
[17:28] >> How old is he now? You said 12. Is he
[17:29] 12?
[17:30] >> He's 12. 12.
[17:31] >> He's 12.
[17:32] >> I love him. [snorts]
[17:34] What are some of the other healthy side
[17:36] effects of deep breathing in addition to
[17:39] slowing down your emotional temperature
[17:41] and gaining mental clarity?
[17:43] >> There's so many there's so many. Um,
[17:46] deep breathing improves sleep,
[17:48] >> lowers blood pressure, helps with
[17:51] digestion, it boosts focus, reduces
[17:54] anxiety, and helps the body release
[17:57] tension, just to name a few. It also
[17:59] improves our relationships
[18:01] because when we when we're calm,
[18:04] >> we communicate better, we're more
[18:06] present. Yeah. Outside there.
[18:09] >> Yeah. And that's like I I'll add that
[18:12] it's that a mental health checkin.
[18:14] >> Too.
[18:15] >> It helps it helps our body feel safe.
[18:18] >> And when we feel safe,
[18:20] >> we thrive.
[18:22] >> Yeah. talk about how using this
[18:24] technique is positively impacting our
[18:27] youth because I don't know many of you
[18:29] if you I'm sure you guys run to Natalya
[18:31] before, but she's at a lot of our safe
[18:33] summer nights events. She's in and out
[18:35] of our schools teaching things. She has
[18:38] her own business and I'm sure if you pop
[18:39] up at her business, she's going to tell
[18:41] you to take a breath. [laughter]
[18:43] So, just um tell us how this technique
[18:46] is positively impacting our youth.
[18:49] >> We're seeing kids make better decisions.
[18:52] um they're becoming more self-aware
[18:55] and they're even reminding adults in
[18:56] their lives to take deep breaths. What
[18:59] we're doing, we're making it simple.
[19:01] We're simplifying this thing. We tell
[19:03] the kids, you have a superpower in your
[19:06] body. When you take deep breaths,
[19:09] filling your body with oxygen or air,
[19:11] depending on the age of the kid, you're
[19:13] activating something called a vagus
[19:15] nerve.
[19:16] >> Okay?
[19:16] >> And that vagus nerve is in your belly.
[19:18] It goes all the way to your brain and it
[19:20] sends a message that you're calm and
[19:22] you're okay.
[19:23] >> Okay,
[19:23] >> that is the main thing I go out and I
[19:26] teach kids in the schools. And and the
[19:29] other thing is I teach smell the rose
[19:30] and blow out the candle.
[19:32] >> That's my very first tool because with
[19:34] kids when you tell them take a breath
[19:36] they and and they're upset or something
[19:38] is it's fast. It it revs them up. But
[19:41] when you say smell the rose,
[19:43] [snorts and sighs] you smell
[19:45] >> blow out the candle.
[19:48] You don't know many kids that blow out a
[19:49] candle like this,
[19:50] >> right?
[19:50] >> So it slows the the nervous system down,
[19:54] activating that parasympathetic nervous
[19:56] system. And so I have been able to work
[19:59] with kids. I mean,
[20:02] I feel like my kids I I I do my best to
[20:05] give them my best, right? But I have
[20:07] dealt with kids that have that deal with
[20:09] daily trauma and stress and uh to watch
[20:12] this work impact them. Um I have kids
[20:16] that have said, "Miss Natalia, like I
[20:18] did some deep belly breathing last night
[20:21] >> and um I was able to go to sleep quicker
[20:24] or you know when my parents are arguing
[20:26] I I can't believe I still fell asleep."
[20:29] >> Stuff like that. One thing that really
[20:31] stands out to me, it was a partnership
[20:34] with you all with the office
[20:36] >> where it was at one of the rec centers.
[20:39] Um I believe it was MLK, but
[20:42] >> a kid was shot
[20:43] >> and
[20:45] >> Brooke called me and she said, "I really
[20:46] want you to work with these kids."
[20:48] >> And I said, "Okay." And so I just worked
[20:50] with the friends. It was a small amount
[20:52] of kids and I always bring snacks when
[20:55] we're hungry, tired, or scared. the the
[20:58] brain, you just can't access your
[21:00] frontal cortex. So, I always bring food.
[21:03] >> We always breathe and regulate so they
[21:04] can feel safe. But these kids were
[21:07] talking about how did it make them feel
[21:09] and and it was kids there that actually
[21:11] was with him when he was shot
[21:14] >> and um
[21:16] to listen to how normal it was
[21:18] normalized. Yeah. You remember when that
[21:21] person was shooting at us and we jumped
[21:22] the fence and we was running things that
[21:24] I can't even imagine. But we would
[21:26] breathe and we would talk through it.
[21:28] And um I left that healing circle, that
[21:32] breathing circle. And two days later, I
[21:35] got a call back.
[21:36] >> Mhm.
[21:37] >> And maybe it was a week later, but
[21:39] shortly after I got a call back that
[21:41] those same kids, their coach was shot
[21:43] and killed.
[21:45] >> And so they said, "We need you back." So
[21:47] this time I brought pizza. I was like,
[21:49] "We going to bring some pizza." And I
[21:51] thought I was going to work with the
[21:53] same kids, but I ended up with the whole
[21:55] football team. So it was like 80 kids.
[21:57] So we went for it was 80 kids.
[22:00] >> And I was like, "Oh my gosh." Okay. So I
[22:02] did my breathing to regulate myself. And
[22:04] when I tell you watching 80 football
[22:07] players ranging from the age of six to
[22:11] 12 breathing. And when I would ask them,
[22:15] I would teach them about the Vegas
[22:17] nerve. And then I say, "What's that
[22:18] thing?" They say, "The Vegas nerve." And
[22:20] where does it send a message to your
[22:22] brain? And there were kids that
[22:24] remembered me from before. And they was
[22:26] like, "Oh my gosh, I did my breathing
[22:28] when I was in school." And to hear this,
[22:31] I'm like, "Yes, we are making a
[22:33] difference." And um kids are carrying
[22:36] this with them. I'm out in the store.
[22:38] That's the breathing lady. [laughter]
[22:40] And and
[22:42] >> but but that particular story was so
[22:44] special because little did we know that
[22:46] they were going to need that tool right
[22:48] away. Right. again.
[22:49] >> Yeah.
[22:50] >> And to hear them say, "Miss Natalya,
[22:52] when I heard about it, I just took my
[22:54] deep breath."
[22:55] >> Yeah.
[22:55] >> I just took my deep breath. And the
[22:57] other thing is hearing kids say, "I
[22:59] taught my mom how to breathe.
[23:01] >> She's still not doing it, but I keep
[23:03] reminding her." [laughter]
[23:06] So, yeah. So, tell and working with kids
[23:08] and parents and staff. That right there,
[23:11] that's what I'm doing in district 622.
[23:13] And it is a beautiful thing. We are
[23:15] literally changing the culture from
[23:17] sending kids out of class taking a break
[23:20] like get him out of here but kids are
[23:23] staying in class we've established so
[23:25] take a breath has helped them establish
[23:27] take a breath corners so every classroom
[23:30] has a corner where you have posters of
[23:33] different breathing tools you have
[23:35] calming tools and so instead of sending
[23:38] them out they go to that corner
[23:40] >> they pick their breath they get to still
[23:42] hear that teacher
[23:44] some of the information still gets in or
[23:46] whatever. They're they're they're not
[23:48] missing out on learning. So, these
[23:51] stories could go on and on. So, I'm
[23:52] going to stop there, but
[23:55] there's we're doing so much.
[23:57] >> God places you where you're supposed to
[23:58] be.
[24:00] >> Yep. God places you where you're
[24:01] supposed to be.
[24:03] Okay, last question. What are your goals
[24:07] in this work for the city of St. Paul?
[24:11] >> My goal is simple. I want to reach as
[24:14] many kids in the community as possible.
[24:16] Through our partnership with ONS and
[24:19] Safe Summer Nights, um my team and I are
[24:21] out in the community at parks, rec
[24:23] centers, events teaching why behind
[24:26] regulation.
[24:28] We explain how activating the Vegas
[24:30] nerve tells the brain we are safe. And
[24:32] we teach it simple and accessible tools
[24:35] like smell the rose and blow out the
[24:36] candle. And yeah, I just want to
[24:41] continue to be in the community. That's
[24:44] it. I want to I want to continue to get
[24:46] out here and and share this this simple.
[24:49] It's simple and it's accessible.
[24:52] >> Mhm. It's not something you got to go
[24:54] searching for. It's something you
[24:55] already have. You just have to use it.
[24:57] It's a tool.
[24:58] >> You just have to use it.
[24:59] >> Just have to use it. Why don't you plug
[25:00] Hot Works real quick?
[25:01] >> Oh, yeah.
[25:02] >> Cuz I'm interested. I need to do
[25:03] something with myself.
[25:05] >> Yeah. No, how works is a part of the
[25:07] mission. Health and wellness is
[25:09] something you know I was diagnosed with
[25:11] multiple scerosis 13 years ago.
[25:13] >> Okay.
[25:14] >> And I didn't know that first of all I
[25:18] didn't even take a breath. None of this
[25:20] was in my plan.
[25:21] >> Mhm.
[25:22] >> Breathing has regulated my body to where
[25:25] I'm healing. I feel good mentally.
[25:29] >> But I've always been on this mission to
[25:31] stay physically healthy. Okay. And so
[25:33] I've tried everything and um when I
[25:37] found Hot Works, it's a 24-hour infrared
[25:41] sauna fitness studio.
[25:43] >> Okay.
[25:44] >> And I don't know if you know much about
[25:45] infrared.
[25:46] >> Oh, no. Well, I know I know it's good
[25:47] for your skin.
[25:48] >> Yes. So, the red light therapy is good
[25:50] for your skin. Okay.
[25:52] >> But infrared energy penetrates deeper
[25:54] into the body. It lowers blood pressure,
[25:57] reduction of inflammation. Um you burn
[26:00] more calories in less time. Uh detox.
[26:03] That's my favorite. The detox. There's
[26:05] so much
[26:06] >> that is absorbent into their skin. Even
[26:08] when we walk outside,
[26:10] >> there's aluminum in our deodorant.
[26:12] There's mercury. There's so many things
[26:15] that the body is holding on to. And when
[26:17] you go to a regular gym, you sweat out
[26:19] water and salt. But when you come into
[26:21] an infrared sauna, then you start to get
[26:24] those toxins out. So when my members
[26:26] come, I'm like, "You got your towel?"
[26:28] Because you start to sweat. Even if you
[26:29] sit in there, you're just sweating, you
[26:31] want to wipe those toxins so they don't
[26:33] absorb back into the skin.
[26:35] >> Okay?
[26:35] >> But with the MS, the reduction of
[26:37] inflammation in my body, I've never felt
[26:39] so good
[26:41] >> to the point I was driving to a studio
[26:43] that was 25 minutes away. And I would
[26:47] just hop on the bike for 15 minutes. The
[26:49] HIT workouts are 15 minutes. We have a
[26:52] cycling water row machine. We have a
[26:55] sitting elliptical machine. Those are
[26:57] our HIT workouts. Get your heart rate
[26:58] up. You're out of there in 15. Okay.
[27:00] >> Then we have 12 isometric workouts. And
[27:03] so isometrics is yoga, pilates, buns. We
[27:07] have a bands class where you can build
[27:09] strength, a bar class, stretch class,
[27:12] which is so important. Those are 30
[27:14] minutes long. But I would drive 25
[27:17] minutes just to hop on the bike for 15
[27:19] minutes. And my husband would say, I
[27:21] mean, are you serious? And I'm [snorts]
[27:22] like, I am. I am because I feel so good.
[27:26] And the muscle recovery is amazing. My
[27:28] husband is a St. Paul firefighter and he
[27:31] had an injury and I said, "Just come to
[27:32] Hotworks with me and try it out." I
[27:34] said, "In fact, I want one in St. Paul."
[27:36] He's like, "We're not doing this." But
[27:38] he went and the muscle recovery like he
[27:41] felt better instantly. He was like,
[27:43] "This is not real."
[27:44] >> Yeah.
[27:45] >> And he started going regularly and he
[27:47] healed faster. And so he was like, "Talk
[27:50] to me about this business you want." And
[27:52] so I decided, let's bring it to St.
[27:54] Paul. Our community needs to know about
[27:56] this. We're out here breathing. Let's
[27:58] start detoxing and regulating the body.
[28:01] Health is wealth.
[28:03] >> We can have all the money,
[28:05] >> all the all the things. But if you don't
[28:07] have your health, you have nothing.
[28:10] >> So my kids, my daughter, she's 14. She's
[28:13] breathing.
[28:14] >> She's detoxing. I was like, I'm going to
[28:16] give you the best chance I can at this
[28:18] thing called life.
[28:19] >> So you do all of this under the like
[28:21] infrared light
[28:22] >> in the sauna.
[28:22] >> In the sauna. So, the sauna fits three
[28:25] people. Okay.
[28:25] >> So, you either work out by yourself or
[28:27] you work out with friends.
[28:29] >> We always encourage people come. We have
[28:31] couples. People work out by themselves,
[28:33] but yeah, you're in the sauna.
[28:34] >> Stretch in the sauna, too.
[28:36] >> Okay.
[28:36] >> So, we have uh mats and towels that you
[28:39] have to have. They're hot works matte
[28:40] and towels. They don't melt. They're
[28:42] made from non-toxic chemicals. And yeah,
[28:44] so you get in the sauna, you put your
[28:47] mat and towel down, and you do your
[28:48] stretch or your yoga. Sometimes you can
[28:50] do your own thing. Mhm.
[28:52] >> And yeah, I went this morning. I hopped
[28:53] on a cycle and then I did a core class.
[28:56] >> You might not get any Okay, I'm going to
[28:58] try this. You might not get any like
[29:00] physical like aerobics or anything cuz
[29:02] like I'll walk. I do like 10 minutes of
[29:04] walk in a day. That's it. I can't do
[29:06] anything else. It starts to feel like a
[29:07] chore after that. But I will come and
[29:09] stretch cuz I need that in my life.
[29:12] >> Yeah.
[29:12] >> Big time. I have people that come and
[29:14] just meditate
[29:15] >> and just sit.
[29:16] >> Just sit. Yeah. The membership is so
[29:18] reasonable compared to a lot of the
[29:21] memberships out there that are hundreds
[29:23] of dollars. It's $59 a month,
[29:25] >> which breaks down to about two bucks a
[29:27] day or something like that.
[29:28] >> But I tell folks, I know
[29:30] >> right now we're going through a lot.
[29:32] >> Prices are up. Everything is up. I'm not
[29:35] selling you another candle.
[29:37] >> I'm not selling you another outfit you
[29:39] may not need. This is all about health
[29:42] and wellness. And you're right. I do
[29:45] have members that come in and I'm like,
[29:46] "Did you take your breath today?"
[29:48] [laughter]
[29:49] Yes, Natalia, I took my breath. There
[29:52] you have it, folks. The city of St. Paul
[29:54] is working to rehabilitate, intervene,
[29:57] and provide safer neighborhoods. If
[29:59] you'd like to learn more about Miss
[30:00] Natalya Davis and just need to take a
[30:02] breath and want someone to walk you
[30:04] through it, please check her out at take
[30:06] a breathnow.com.
[30:08] If you'd like to learn more about
[30:10] Community First Public Safety and the
[30:11] Office of Neighborhood Safety, please
[30:13] visit us at staul.govs.